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Archive for 2010

Free Holiday Gifts Fit for a Queen (to give)

Tuesday, December 14th, 2010

Ho Ho Ho

To have a good friend is to be a good friend.  No gifts are required.  There are tons of free, easy and powerful ways to nurture your friendships and let the women in your life know how much they mean to you.  We thought we’d share some of our favorites to get your creative juices flowing, and we’d love to hear some of your ideas, too.  Please, please share so we can all benefit.


Empty Nests | Full Nests

Friday, September 10th, 2010

Fall is empty nest time for many of us, whether our children are off to college or even off the Kindergarden. For many, those years of managing, serving, guiding and nurturing our offspring have defined us completely. For some, empty nest syndrome is a sense of joy and accomplishment because we’ve launched our charges into the world.  For others, it’s bittersweet as we watch them go toward a future that we know will hold struggles as well as joys.  Still for others, there is a feeling of loss, as though our purpose has been misplaced.  And then, of course, there is the very real possibility that we may feel all of the above.


Back to School? No, Back to Me Month!

Thursday, September 2nd, 2010

It’s Day 2 of our self-declared Back to Me Month and today we’re asking everyone to give themselves the gift of time by taking a break from their daily responsibilities.  Take 10 minutes to read a book, look through a magazine, let your mind wander and relax.  If the daily grind has you stressed and taking 10 seems impossible, set a kitchen timer for 10 minutes and tell yourself to drop your worries until the timer rings.  See if you can clear your mind and allow space to dream, to be entertained, to drink in the deliciousness that is reading.


September is Back to Me Month | Queen of Your Own Life

Tuesday, August 31st, 2010

Photo Courtesy of TheVintageWorkshop.com

Every September, we get an overwhelming urge to buy new shoes and fresh notebooks.  That “Back to School” mentality is so ingrained in our brains, even 40 years later, that we get a little weepy over a pack of #2 pencils.  Even more than the start of the “New Year, New You” season every January, September still feels like the beginning of our new year.  So this September, we’ve decided to put that urge to good use, and because we’re Queens of our own lives, we declare September to be “Back to Me Month.”


Repeat After Us: I Am An Amazing Woman

Tuesday, August 17th, 2010

Let's eat Cake!

The ultimate gift to ourselves is to believe that, no matter what our age, size or circumstances, we are beautiful, valuable and worthy of admiration.  Think how it would feel to go out into the world reflecting that feeling inside and out?

There is no better time than now to start to appreciate that you are perfect just the way you are—a truly remarkable woman who is more than ready to be Queen of Your Own Life!

Here are the 10 steps we took in order to claim our power, beauty and rightful royal place as Queen.  It’s time to start living the life you desire and deserve.  If not now, when?


7 Funny Books to Bring a Smile to Your Face

Wednesday, July 7th, 2010

We recently had the privilege of speaking the American Library Association’s ALTAFF event called “The Laugh’s on Us.”  Speaking with us that evening were six other writers, humorists and comedians, each with a book just out or about to come out.  These authors had us in stitches and because we believe in the power of a hearty belly laugh, we wanted to let you know about their books.  Each one will be available at your local bookstore or from online retailers OR from your local library.  We give a virtual touch of the pearls and a wave to the librarians out there who are making a difference, everyday, in the lives of millions as they continue to make literature, periodicals, movies, research materials and internet access available, free of charge, to all.  Bravo!

So without further ado, here are the books and authors we met at ALA.


Upcoming May Appearances

Monday, May 10th, 2010

Here’s our live personal appearance schedule for May.  We hope you can join us for one of these events and, as always, there will be door prizes from our awesome friends at philosophy!

Philadelphia Area:  We’ll be doing a talk and book signing on May 20th at 7PM at the Barnes & Noble in Cherry Hill, NJ

Allentown, Bethlehem Easton, PA area:  We’ll be doing a talk and book signing on May 21st at 6PM (PLEASE NOTE NEW TIME) at the Barnes & Noble in Center Valley, PA at The Promenade Shops.

Boston Area:  We’ll be doing a talk and book signing on May 24th at 1PM at Borders Books.

7 Gifts to Give Yourself on Mother’s Day

Saturday, May 8th, 2010

On May 9th, women around the world will wake up to a wide variety of Mother’s Day gifts. Many will get adorable cards made with crayons and construction paper. Some will wake up to breakfast in bed made with more love than culinary skill and still others will receive flowers from loved ones far away. Some will get gifts with fabulous vintage images like this one we used above compliments of our friends at The Vintage Workshop.  As always, Mom’s and Grandmothers everywhere will be pleased to be remembered and will appreciate these loving gestures and delightful gifts.

Yet, some of the sweetest and most treasured gifts women can receive on Mothers Day are the gifts we give to ourselves. Not diamond bracelets or a pampered day at a spa, both perfectly lovely gifts and fun to receive.


Virtual Crowning Party Prize Winners

Saturday, May 8th, 2010

Congratulations to all of our Virtual Crowning Party Winners!  Below is a complete list of winners.


Queen of Your Own Life Prize Winners for May 1-2

Sunday, May 2nd, 2010

Congratulations to everyone!  We had so many wonderful Queens don their virtual crowns, sign up for the newsletter and/or share our site on their Facebook pages that we decided to pick a few additional winners.

Each winner will need to e-mail us their mailing address so we can send out these prizes right away.  You can e-mail your mailing address to us at info@Queenofyourownlife.com.  So without further fanfare, here are our final winners this week.