Queen of Your Own Life by Kathy Kinney and Cindy Ratzlaff

Queen of Your Own Life is an attitude, a way of life and a call to action for grown up women everywhere.

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Archive for 2017

Gratitude Is A Choice

Monday, October 16th, 2017

Instead of feeling overwhelmed by fear and anxiety she decided to be overwhelmed by gratitude. - Queenisms™

Instead of feeling overwhelmed by fear and anxiety she decided to be overwhelmed by gratitude. – Queenisms™

Worry never gets you anything except wrinkles and a lot of wasted time because being worried or anxious doesn’t change anything.  It takes courage to change your thinking and look for the things in your life that are right instead of wrong.  Making a gratitude list and allowing yourself to be overwhelmed by gratitude can be a very healing experience.

Queen Of Your Own Life

Sunday, October 15th, 2017

On occasion she might not remember where her keys or her phone were but she always remembered she was The Queen of Her Own Life. - Queenisms™ This is the last day of Women And Their Cats week.

On occasion she might not remember where her keys or her phone were but she always remembered she was The Queen of Her Own Life. – Queenisms™  Final day of Women And Their Cats week.

No matter what, you are the valuable, brave, smart Queen of Your Own Life and don’t let anyone tell you differently.

Life Is Too Precious To Waste

Saturday, October 14th, 2017

She decided life was too precious to waste even for a moment. So she made the decision to slow down and savor every teeny tiny bit of it. - Queenisms™

She decided life was too precious to waste even for a moment. So she made the decision to slow down and savor every teeny tiny bit of it. – Queenisms™  Day 6 of Women And Their Cats

Everyone always wishes that they could slow down but in truth they only thing stopping them from doing it is them.  Finding happiness is just making a series of small positive life choices.  Making the choice to slow down and find your true priorities might be the biggest choice you ever make.

Be Open To All Possibilities

Friday, October 13th, 2017

She decided to look for all the open doors and walk through them with her heart and mind open to all possibilities. The cat thought it sounded like a good plan. - Queenisms™

She decided to look for all the open doors and walk through them with her heart and mind open to all possibilities. The cat thought it sounded like a good plan. – Queenisms™ Day 5 of Women And Their Cats

Doesn’t it make sense to walk slowly through your fear towards the open door?  Keeping your hear and mind open to all possibilities is a good choice.

 

No One In The World Like You

Wednesday, October 11th, 2017

All her life she had felt different, like she didn't fit in. One day it occurred to her that there was no one in the entire world quite like her. She was a unique and valuable treasure. - Queenisms™ Day 3 of Women And Their Cats

All her life she had felt different, like she didn’t fit in. One day it occurred to her that there was no one in the entire world quite like her. She was a unique and valuable treasure. – Queenisms™
Day 3 of Women And Their Cats

We are all unique, one-of-a-kind treasures to cherished and loved.  Wouldn’t it be the most boring kind of world if we were all exactly the same?

Feel Better At The End Of The Day

Tuesday, October 10th, 2017

She decided it took a lot less energy to be positive than it did to be negative. And you felt a lot better at the end of the day. - Queenisms™ It's day 2 of Women And Their Cats week!

She decided it took a lot less energy to be positive than it did to be negative. And you felt a lot better at the end of the day. – Queenisms™
It’s day 2 of Women And Their Cats week!

When we surround ourselves with people, places and things that are negative we absorb the negativity.  It takes a bit of practice but ultimately it does take a lot less energy to be positive than it does to be negative.  It’s your decision to make so what’s it going to be – negative or positive?

You Get What You Give

Monday, October 9th, 2017

She believed that in this life you get what you give so she decided to treat everyone the way she wanted to be treated, with love, kindness and respect. - Queenisms™

She believed that in this life you get what you give so she decided to treat everyone the way she wanted to be treated, with love, kindness and respect. – Queenisms™

The week of Women Who Love Dogs is over and now it’s the week of Women And Their Cats!

How do you want people to treat you?  Why not show them by giving them the kindness, love and respect that you want and we all deserve.

Taking Better Care of Yourself

Sunday, October 8th, 2017

She knew she felt better about herself when she looked good. So she decided to take better care of herself because if she didn't, who would? - Queenisms™

She knew she felt better about herself when she looked good. So she decided to take better care of herself because if she didn’t, who would? – Queenisms™

We’re not talking about going to boot camp or running a marathon, we’re talking about the small daily things that make us feel better.  Wear lipstick when you go to the grocery store or a nice pair of shoes when running errands.  Start small to build your self esteem then run a marathon or heck, start a boot camp of your own.  You are capable of anything.

Let Go of Judgement

Saturday, October 7th, 2017

She decided to be herself and let others do the same. Life was so much easier when you didn't judge. - Queenisms™

She decided to be herself and let others do the same. Life was so much easier when you didn’t judge. – Queenisms™

Life is too short to do anything but be yourself – the freedom is delicious.  Living in a world full of judgement makes it really hard to find joy.  Why not make the choice to stop judging everyone including yourself.  It feels good to be part of the solution.

Nothing You Can’t Handle

Friday, October 6th, 2017

She decided to stop wasting time labeling her life experiences as good or bad. Instead she used her time to remind herself that she was brave, strong and creative enough to handle it all. - Queenisms™

She decided to stop wasting time labeling her life experiences as good or bad. Instead she used her time to remind herself that she was brave, strong and creative enough to handle it all. – Queenisms™

When we look back over our lives we see that when something “bad” happened really good things followed and vice versa.  Why waste time labeling and just live.  Your experiences have already proven that you are brave, strong and creative enough to handle life.