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A Desire to Change | Queenisms

by Cindy Ratzlaff

She had denied her own needs so long that once she acknowledged them, she felt an overwhelming desire to live her life in a different way. The pain of staying stuck finally became more than the pain of making a change. And so, she changed. ~ Queenisms™

This is a very important point. We change when the pain of staying the same is greater than the pain of changing. That stinks but it’s true. The key is to get to the place where you long for change more than you fear it. We know. We’ve been there and we just want to say, you can create a life where you are happy. You deserve to be happy. You can do this.

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2 Responses to “A Desire to Change | Queenisms”

  1. Paula says:

    I am 58 years young and am living a ‘what to be’ exciting dream of giving up the day job and sewing and selling beautiful shawls and kimonos for beautiful women. I sit and stare at the sewing machine praying on who when and why? Fear of failure and fear of success gets me. Giving that damn 2 week notice at work, setting myself free scares the shit out of me. your writings give me hope and courage to press on that I am worth it all and…more! Thank you for being the Queens that I long to be! Peace Paula

  2. cindy says:

    Queen Paula, Even big girls sometimes need baby steps. Start small and sew during your off hours. Pull the plug on your income stream when you feel more confident that your passion work can replace that safety net. Taking care of yourself is part of the dream, right? When we start slowly and build, those steps to success can seem less steep. We’re cheering for you.

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