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Queen of Your Own Life

Ask | The Battle for You

by Cindy Ratzlaff

We ask a lot of questions in our lives. “Why did this happen to me?”  “Why can’t I seem to get a break?” “Why is everything so hard?”

The answers to those questions are often self- perpetuating.  “Because I’m not good enough, smart enough, rich enough, thin enough.” In our most lucid moments, we know these things aren’t true, but they hover there, in the back of our thoughts, waiting to jump out and give us reasons to feel helpless and hopeless.

I’ve love to see us change the conversation in our heads by asking ourselves different questions.

“What do I want for myself?  What are my dreams?  How can I nurture those dreams?  Who do I know who will cheer me on as I make my dreams come true?”

The answers to these questions focus our energy on what is possible.  They bring our desires into sharp focus and show us a pathway to more joy and more happiness.  They remind us that we have dreams.

And, finally, let’s ask ourselves the most important question.  “If not now, when?”

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