Queen of Your Own Life by Kathy Kinney and Cindy Ratzlaff

Queen of Your Own Life is an attitude, a way of life and a call to action for grown up women everywhere.

Every celebration needs Cake. Declare yourself Queen and eat cake. »

For even MORE Royal Fun, click here!

Launch the interactive site

Blog Archive

Find Us on Facebook!

Follow Us on Twitter

Queen of Your Own Life

Banishing Miss Crankypants – Queenisms

Worth TrustWe harp on this boundary setting issue a lot and we’re not sorry. So many spirals of anger and frustration start because we say yes when we mean no. We’re so afraid people won’t like us that we create situations where we don’t like them. We’re angry that they impose on us. Well, look in the mirror friends. We caused that. We didn’t say no. We said yes, felt put upon and led that person to believe the request was a welcome one. Stop. You have the power. Say what you mean. At first people will be shocked. They might even be upset. But over time, they’ll learn that you say what you mean and that you are a person worthy of trust. Let’s banish the “Miss Crankypants” we become when we create a situation where we feel put upon.

Tags: , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , ,

Leave a Reply

* indicates a required field