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Born to Stand Out, Queenisms

Vintage photo from one of our all-time favorite bloggers The Graphics Fairy. Thank you Karen!

Vintage photo from one of our all-time favorite bloggers The Graphics Fairy. Thank you Karen!

by Cindy Ratzlaff

She tried so hard to fit in, but she was born to stand out. That beautiful truth, was crystal clear to everyone. . . except her. ~ Queenisms™
Why do we spend so much time trying to fit in? It starts when we’re very young and sometimes the urge to merge causes us to bury our gifts. Societies need a certain amount of sameness to succeed. We need to comply with laws and values in order to co-exist. But taken too far, we lose our specialness…and we are all special. We think it’s time to celebrate both your sameness AND your differences. Go!

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4 Responses to “Born to Stand Out, Queenisms”

  1. Kathy says:

    I have stopped trying to fit in and am learning to love myself and my “you-niqueness”. As a result, of focusing on me, I have lost 24 1/2 lbs.
    This whole week’s Royal Reminders are speaking volumes to me.

  2. cindy says:

    Queen Kathy, we’re loving the phrase “you-niqueness.” Bravo to you for finding a way to stand out rather than blend in and we’re so grateful that you’re with us on this life journey. (And congrats on the weight loss that came from giving yourself the attention you deserved!)

  3. Pat Bennett says:

    I have just found this site–FABULOUS! I am 78 yrs. young and “I don’t fit in”ith the most of the other OLD ladies. I take care of myself–makeup, hair styled and colored, “gaudy jewelry” and nice clothes and I refuse to change so I look and act like the rest. I am still attractive, full of laughter and life and live every day to the fullest. I will become a regular on your site and will download your book on my iPat. Love you for what you are doing.,

  4. cindy says:

    Queen Pat, we’re delighted you’ve found us. We are your tribe, for sure.

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