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Don’t Dull Your Shine | Queenisms

by Cindy Ratzlaff

You are a bright light in this world For a reason. No one or no thing has the right to dull your shine…not even you. ~ Queenisms™

We say “not even you” for a reason. Do you ever catch yourself saying “I’m so stupid. I can’t believe I did that. Or, I’ll never learn this?” Those short, knee jerk responses dull your shine. They are messages directly from your mouth to your heart. There are enough moments in a day where we need to side step negativity. We cannot allow ourselves to add to the shine-fulling noise.

I can’t. I’m not good enough. I’m stupid. I’m fat. These are all messages that dull your shine and require conscious intention to stop and change the conversation you are having with yourself.

Let’s consciously make a promise to ourselves. Look in the mirror and repeat after us. “I promise to speak to you with kindness at all times. So sayeth the Queen.”

Is there something negative you say to yourself often that you can pledge to stop saying?

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