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Fan the Flames | Queenisms

by Cindy Ratzlaff

Today, she vowed, she would fan the flames of creativity, passion and excitement and not the flames of hurt and anger. ~ Queenisms™

We all know it’s easy to fan the flames of anger and hurt. One jab, one shaming look, one reminder of a painful situation and we take an ember and make it into a full, burning bonfire.

But did you know you can also fan the flames of positive feelings, creativity and joy? It works exactly the same way; an unexpected smile, a simple thank you, an appreciative nod, or a word of encouragement all have the same effect on flame. They add oxygen to the fire and stoke the coals.

Which kind of fire do you want to fan this week?

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2 Responses to “Fan the Flames | Queenisms”

  1. Darlita says:

    I REALLY needed to read this today. I am working on healing my wounds and I am choosing to fan the flames of positivity, creatitivy, and joy oppossed to anger, hurt, and hatred. The problem that I am facing is that I have too many wounds which are sensitive areas for me to contend with. Regardless, I am not going to allow the evil that has been done to me by the people I loved and/or cared about and called “family”, friends, or my man to change who I am at core and turn my heart black like theirs.

  2. cindy says:

    Queen Darlita, you are so precious and worthy of all good things. You are doing everything possible to heal those wounds and embracing positive thoughts is one of those things that can help. Hugs to you today.

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