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It’s Random Acts of Phone Calls Day | Summer of Self

by Cindy Ratzlaff

She began to make a list of things she adored about her dearest friends, and began to make her calls. She started out wanting to make her friends feel good, and by the end of the day, she realized that she too, had received a gift…gratitude. ~ Queenisms™

Who will you call, Queens? Keep in mind that even the smallest, shortest call is ok. The simple act of expressing gratitude will open up your heart and mind to the many, many moments in your life where the seeds of joy await water and sun.

Some of you will say “I don’t have good friends.  That’s my problem.”  We’re going to dish up some tough love here and say poppycock.

Did the bus driver smile at you today?  Smile back.  Did the grocery clerk say “Have a nice day?” Stop and say “I appreciate that and I think I’ll do just that.”  Did a friend say “I wish we could make time to see each other.” Call them and say, “Let’s schedule time together even if it’s not for a month.  Your friendship is important to me.”  If you don’t have a friend, begin demonstrating that you are friend worthy by being a source of lightness and joy for others.  Attract what you want by being a good listener, a cheerleader for others, a person who is known to always have a kind word at the ready.

Who has other ideas for ways in which we can all open ourselves up to new or deeper friendships?  This is so important that we cannot emphasize it enough.  Friendships are important to our mental health.  You deserve at least one good friend. But to have a good friend, you have to be a good friend.  It requires action. Go.

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