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Life is Too Short for Fiddle-Faddle

Original quotes and digital art by Kathy Kinney and Cindy Ratzlaff. http://QueenofYourOwnLife.com

She was a woman of her word. She said yes when she meant yes and no when she meant no. Life was too short for fiddle- faddle. ~ Queenisms™

When we are clear about the words yes and no, we set ourselves up for less stress, more support and a cleaner, happier life. What do we mean? Think about the feeling in the pit of your stomach when you’ve agreed to do something you didn’t really want to do. The event approaches, you feel stress and ultimately you’re resentful of the person who asked you for the commitment. But your resentment is misplaced. You created the stress by not taking the time to fully ask yourself if this was something you could do, wanted to do and were willing to do. Don’t compound the time-crunching stress that affects us all by saying yes when you mean no and then holding others responsible for your anxiety. Practice saying no so that your yes has real value.

A misguided yes is fiddle-faddle.

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2 Responses to “Life is Too Short for Fiddle-Faddle”

  1. Victoria says:

    I absolutely love getting your wonderful words of wisdom! Always seems to come at just the right time!! You two are awesome!!!

  2. cindy says:

    Queen Victoria, we’re so glad and thank you for taking a moment to tell us they speak to you.

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