She finally got that it didn’t matter what other people thought of her. It mattered what she thought of herself. Phew! – Queenisms™
We used to be so wounded when someone didn’t like us. We always bent over backwards to make sure everybody liked us but the truth is we have no control over what other’s say or think. When we realized that the only opinion that really mattered was how we felt about ourselves we set ourselves free. Of course that’s when the real work began. Loving and admiring yourself is your birthright but years of judgement sometimes make it difficult to give yourself this gift. We use positive affirmations to help erase the old negative thoughts. Here’s one of our favorites, “I am valuable and worthy all of the good things that come my way.” What’s your favorite affirmation?