Queen of Your Own Life by Kathy Kinney and Cindy Ratzlaff

Queen of Your Own Life is an attitude, a way of life and a call to action for grown up women everywhere.

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She forgave herself for that brief moment when she forgot she was awesome, and vowed not to let that happen again. - Queenisms™

She forgave herself for that brief moment when she forgot she was awesome, and vowed not to let that happen again. – Queenisms™

In those moments of doubt about our abilities, our worth, our value and our purpose, we tend to forget we are already “good enough.” Anything we choose to do, seek, say, accomplish or otherwise add to our lives or the lives of others is gravy. We are enough. Our simply being is worthy. So those moments when we beat ourselves up because we don’t look like a movie star or we don’t have a Porsche in the driveway or we don’t have a picture perfect family are the moments when we’ve forgotten that the value in our lives is in the fact that we exist – filled with possibilities. Most often we do not get to know who we’ve impacted in a positive way and how they in turn impacted others and created a ripple that lead to something even we might consider “awesome.” That’s ok. It’s not our job to see the whole picture. It’s our job to have the courage to show up in life and do the best we can with the gifts we possess. If you don’t think you have gifts, we just have to say, you are wrong. Let’s refocus our attention this week, away from doubt about our awesomeness and put it squarely on creating little ripples in the world. Hold the door open for someone – even if they don’t have their arms full. Maybe they have their hearts full or are carrying a burden you can’t see. Thank everyone who even remotely helps you this week. You’ll never know how much they might need to be appreciated or acknowledged. Bite your tongue this week when it comes to criticism of others. Give them the gift of your tolerance. The ability to walk through your week without leaving bodies in your wake is one gift you can access. The other is to walk through your week leaving flowers where thorns might have been trying to break through the cement. Who’s with us? Let’s be ok with the fact that we do not get to know who we’ve impacted or how they in turn impact others to create a ripple that leads to something awesome.

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