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Queen of Your Own Life

No Time for Fiddle-Faddle

Cindy Ratzlaff and Kathy Kinney blog and write books about claiming happiness in midlife at http://QueenofYourOwnLife.com. All of their affirmations and digital art are original.She was a woman of her word. She said yes when she meant yes and no when she meant no. Life was too short for fiddle-faddle. ~ Queenisms™

Don’t you just love the word fiddle-faddle? And, we don’t mean the snack food.  Our lives are complicated beyond belief when we are not clear about our boundaries. When we train others to believe what we say, we create a calmer, happier life. Saying yes when you really want to say no, in most cases, creates resentment, regret and anxiety. When we say no to those things we are not able to do, we free the asker to find another solution. That’s honesty and don’t both we and our loved ones deserve complete honesty?

Setting boundaries by saying yes only when we are willing, able and desire to say yes is a form of rigorous honesty. Honesty sets us free from resentment. Freedom from resentment creates a calmer, happier life.

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