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Be a Recovering Yes Woman | Queen of Your Own Life

by Kathy Kinney

It occurred to her what a brilliant world it would be if everyone said what they meant and meant what they said. She decided it was time to stop being part of the problem and instead be part of the solution. – Queenisms™When we talk about saying what we mean, we want to be clear that we mean “with kindness.” We’re not talking about flinging the door open and screaming “everybody get off my back.” (Ok, sometimes that does occur to us). But we have to take others into consideration when we speak.

If someone asked you to do something and you can’t or don’t want to, simply say no. If you want to say yes, say yes. When we practice this simple communication with honesty strategy, we find that we don’t get to the point of resentment and anger and our no’s are much kinder and our yes is more joyful.

Beginning to say no can upset folks in your life. If you’ve been a yes gal all along and suddenly find your footing, many people will be upset to lose their yes woman. But with practice, they’ll come to value your yes, respect your no and trust that your answer to any request will be a carefully considered and honest response.

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