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Secrets | The Battle for You

by Cindy Ratzlaff

Yesterday I shared a secret with a group of people I hardly know.  It was an online support group of people all working toward a goal, supporting one another in our various business pursuits.  The one rule for this group is that we don’t offer one another advice, we only listen and offer support. 

The secret I shared was about an emotional struggle I’ve been having that is holding me back from being the very best, very happiest I can be.  They listened and asked how they could help.  I said “support me without judging me.”  They agreed and I felt a lightness all day over this issue.

This morning it occurs to me what a gift this support group is, and what a gift I can be to myself.  I support each of them in the same way they support me.  I listen to their concerns, their progress, their victories and simply encourage them and support them.  I’m a part of the group.  I need to do the same thing for myself.

So for today I am going to be a support group of one to myself and I’m going to fully avail myself of their continued support and I’d like to be the source of support to you.  I’ve always felt that this should be a safe place where we can come and be lifted up, unconditionally.  I hope you feel that way too.

Our secrets keep us prisoners.  When we secretly feel we’re not good enough, smart enough, thin enough, clever enough or whatever “enough” is tying you up in knots, they sit like a boulder in our path, blocking our way forward.  Let’s look to the left and the right today and see one another.  We’re all on the journey together and we CAN get around that boulder, no matter what it is.

So sayeth the Queen.

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One Response to “Secrets | The Battle for You”

  1. Lillian Bannister says:

    I Love This Esp for Social Networking people, but for me also . If I have a secret its between me and god and if he wants it out its because it could only help me to have it out, other than that whatever I say to someonelse i almost always expect it to get out and never ever will I hold them to keeping it. (Humans are not built Like that)

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