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Set A Firm Boundary

She wanted to be known as a woman who always had a ready smile, but also knew how to set a gentle but firm boundary. It was going to take practice but she was soooooo ready. – Queenisms™

She wanted to be known as a woman who always had a ready smile, but also knew how to set a gentle but firm boundary. It was going to take practice but she was soooooo ready. – Queenisms

Setting boundaries always seemed so scary and hard.  When we finally couldn’t stand living in the resentment anymore we began to practice saying, “No.”  At first we did it with a lot of apologizing cause we were worried that people wouldn’t like us anymore.  And, some people were a bit miffed that we weren’t saying “Yes” all of the time.  In time we stopped apologizing and simply ran a check on our feelings before we gave our answer.  It took practice and we’re not perfect but the freedom and protection of being a good boundary setter is so worth it.  Are you good at boundaries?

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