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She Made Questionable Choices

She had made some questionable choices, many of which led to some difficult circumstances. But the most important choice she ever made - in her entire life - was to give herself a second chance. - Queenisms™

She had made some questionable choices, many of which led to some difficult circumstances. But the most important choice she ever made – in her entire life – was to give herself a second chance. – Queenisms™

Let’s put it out there right now. We’ve made MANY questionable choices in our lives. We freely admit it. And, we think you are not different than us in that way. So if you’re sitting in your room right now, feeling shame and regret and thinking every other woman out there is leading a great life and hasn’t ventured down that dark alley of “bad” choices, you’re just out and out wrong. Get up and get out of that room right now. You are not different, shameful, unlovable or anything else. You are, however, anchored down by secrets. When we lock something away, like regret or shame, we aren’t protecting ourselves. We’re giving it power by working hard to hide that piece of ourselves. We work overtime to build up a protective barrier between us and those “questionable choices.” But the more we try to bury them, the more they send out roots and take over our thoughts, feelings and actions. Anything you’ve said, done or thought is a reflection of a moment in time. Right now, you’re able to make new choices and impact new outcomes, all with the knowledge that if you look to the left and to the right, you’ll see every other woman you’ve ever know on the exact same path, looking for happiness.

Is there something you are hiding away that you can forgive yourself for, today? You don’t need to tell us what it is if you don’t want to. Just type “I forgive myself” in the comments below to let us know you’re thinking about it. OK? We adore you, by the way.

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5 Responses to “She Made Questionable Choices”

  1. Barbara Metcalfe says:

    I forgive myself!

  2. Dee Romesburg says:

    I forgive myself.

  3. Allison Elliott says:

    I forgive myself.

  4. Anne Strong says:

    I forgive myself. (I adore you too.)

  5. T. Foster says:

    I forgive myself.

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