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Queen of Your Own Life

Stop Comparing Yourself

She decided to stop comparing herself with everyone else she met. - Queenisms™

She decided to stop comparing herself with everyone else she met. – Queenisms™

Comparing ourselves to others is something nearly every one of us has done yet the futility of this is striking. First, we can never truly know what is going on for that person we admire. We believe that if you could stand in their shoes for any length of time, you’d most likely choose your own “baggage” rather than trade with them. We can’t always see the pain, fear, frustration and anxiety that is a silent partner for most people. But that aside, we all have something about us that needs to shine and when we dull our shine due to some misconception that our lives would be better if we were like that person or this person, we turn our attention away from those things that could be our most important assets. And, finally, we’d just like to say “snap out of it.” If we were all exactly the same, what a boring world this would be. It’s precisely because of our differences that we are more beautiful, fascinating, clever, talented and creative. So put away your cookie cutter mentality and let yourself be unique you. No one compares to you!

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