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Strong Boundaries Make Strong Women | Summer of Self

by Cindy Ratzlaff

A happy, healthy Queendom needs strong boundaries. When we say yes to everyone else, we are saying no to ourselves. Choose your yes and no wisely. ~ Queenisms™

How many times have we all heard ourselves say yes when we really wanted to say no.  Remember that every yes is a decision to do one thing and not another.  When we say yes to everyone else, we are often saying no to ourselves.

That doesn’t mean that we should never help others or even that we should never sacrifice our time for the good of someone else.  Of course we should…just not every day, every minute.

The point here is informed choice. Let’s say yes when we really mean yes and no when we need to carve out time for ourselves or those things we really want or need to do.  Easy to do? No.  Important to do.  Yes.

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