by Cindy Ratzlaff
She came to realize that there was always something more. She reminded herself that her story was not finished. There were thousands of pages to fill and she was the author. ~ Queenisms™
The story of you is not finished. There are thousands of pages to fill and you are the author. You get to choose the next action scene. What will you choose?
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Oh – what is my story. Queen of my own life. I’m not so sure.
Family wants it done I’m the one – I don’t say no, (really can’t – I’m it), I’m dependable, don’t whine, available, honest and I do it as if I was doing whatever it was for myself.
I have a sister in law who is jealous, petty and catty. All of which I am not. My outlook in life is there is always someone with more or less. Whether it be “stuff” or looks. I’m not one for material possessions so I don’t look at that. I like to look nice but don’t obsess over it, so I don’t look at that. I like people for their character.
She goes out of her way to make life difficult. If I’m close to someone she works on getting close to them. If I’m going to do something she hurry’s and does it first, she’s bashed me to her kids so there is hardly a relationship, I have to see her. With weight loss it’s now getting worse. Ugh, it’s all so petty and life has so much more to offer than this crap. I wish I knew a way out.
I know I’m in control of my own life – my best way is to try to be around when shes not there. We pretty much don’t talk so I’m ok with that. I am stuck though but I know it isn’t forever either.
It’s so hard when the negativity comes from within your inner circle. It sounds to us like you are doing a very good job of supporting yourself despite someone trying to rewrite your story for you! We’re cheering for you.