Queen of Your Own Life by Kathy Kinney and Cindy Ratzlaff

Queen of Your Own Life is an attitude, a way of life and a call to action for grown up women everywhere.

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Queen of Your Own Life

Welcome to the Rest of Your Life!

Queen of Your Own Life is an attitude, a way of life and a call to action for grown up women everywhere.

We invite you to join us in celebrating life. You have absolutely nothing to lose and only great friendship, thrilling adventure, true love and deep satisfaction to gain when you declare yourself Queen of Your Own Life.

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We’re Going On Vacation!

July 17th, 2017 comments 2 Comments »

Laughter Is the Best Medicine

You won’t be seeing our newsletter again until mid August because we are going on a much deserved working vacation!  We are getting together for our annual retreat and to talk over ideas for a new book we’d like to write.  We will be working hard but we will also be enjoying every single moment of it.  We hope you’re having a wonderful summer and we’ll see you when we get back!

You Are Worthy of Happiness

July 17th, 2017 comments 1 Comment »

The fact is there's not a limited amount of happiness in the world. And all she had to do to have some in her life was to understand that she was just as worthy as every one else. - Queenisms™

The fact is there’s not a limited amount of happiness in the world. And all she had to do to have some in her life was to understand that she was just as worthy as every one else. – Queenisms™

Sometimes we’ll glance over at someone else’s life and feel like they have something we don’t have.  Other people’s lives always look better from the outside but they have trials and tribulations just like we do.  We are all working towards learning to be strong and courageous women and being happy and the by product of that is happiness.  We are all born worthy of being happy.  Isn’t time to accept that gift and enjoy it?

Permission To Be Happy Again

July 16th, 2017 comments 1 Comment »

She gave herself permission to be happy again. Then she looked in the mirror and said "welcome back." - Queenisms™

She gave herself permission to be happy again. Then she looked in the mirror and said “welcome back.” – Queenisms™ 

Often we just get in the habit of feeling sad, angry or having hurt feelings but is that really the way you want to spend your life?  We have very little control over what happens but we do have a choice about how we’re going to react to it.  Keeping your sense of humor and imagination in tact and giving yourself permission to be happy again is something you can practice every day until you’re ready to look in the mirror and say, “Welcome back!”

Living An Honest Life

July 14th, 2017 comments 1 Comment »

Life was much easier when she was honest with everyone, especially herself. - Queenisms™Living An Honest Life

Life was much easier when she was honest with everyone, especially herself. – Queenisms™

We all have a tendency to tell “stories” about and to ourselves.  We ignore feelings instead saying things to ourselves and others to cover the truth.  Wading through the little white lies we tell to not rock the boat and finally exposing the truth let’s in the sunshine and grants us the freedom of living a honest life.  Don’t we all deserve that?

News & Events

  • Queenisms New Book and Calendar

    Our newest book and desk calendar for 2016 are here and creating them for you brought us a great deal of joy.

  • New Queenisms book and calendar!

    The all-new 2016 Queen of Your Own Life gift book and 2016 page-a-day calendar are now on sale at both Amazon and Barnes & Noble and we could not be prouder.

  • The Queen Calendar is a Bestseller!

    The Queen of Your Own Life 2016 Calendar is now on sale at Barnes & Noble and Amazon and soon to hit stores near you – wherever calendars are sold.