Queen of Your Own Life by Kathy Kinney and Cindy Ratzlaff

Queen of Your Own Life is an attitude, a way of life and a call to action for grown up women everywhere.

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Queen of Your Own Life

Welcome to the Rest of Your Life!

Queen of Your Own Life is an attitude, a way of life and a call to action for grown up women everywhere.

We invite you to join us in celebrating life. You have absolutely nothing to lose and only great friendship, thrilling adventure, true love and deep satisfaction to gain when you declare yourself Queen of Your Own Life.

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Be Your Own Brilliant Self

June 19th, 2017 comments No Comments »

She wanted everyone to like her, which caused her great anxiety. She decided to no longer pretend to be more or less than she really was. She would be her own brilliant self and that would be way more than enough. - Queenisms™

She wanted everyone to like her, which caused her great anxiety. She decided to no longer pretend to be more or less than she really was. She would be her own brilliant self and that would be way more than enough. – Queenisms™

How much time do you spend trying to be something more or less than you really are?  We work so hard to impress others and then diminish ourselves when our intelligence or power might threaten someone else.  There is such a delightful and relaxing freedom in just being ourselves.  If people don’t like you for yourself then they were never your friends to begin with.  Being our brilliant self is so way more than enough.

Life Is Short So Just Do It!

June 17th, 2017 comments No Comments »

If she'd known then what she knew now she'd have worn the dangling earrings her friends all said were just a little flashy.

If she’d known then what she knew now she’d have worn the dangling earrings her friends all said were just a little flashy.

If we only knew then what we know now, how different it all would have been.  It’s an oldie but a goody and our only response it:  Life is short. Wear the earrings! Laugh more. Be you!  Don’t you agree?

Every Day A Brand New Adventure

June 16th, 2017 comments No Comments »

She reminded herself that every day was the beginning of a brand new adventure. It was her choice to make. - Queenisms™

She reminded herself that every day was the beginning of a brand new adventure. It was her choice to make. – Queenisms™

The one thing in life we have control over is how we are going to react to each new day.  We have many choices such as cower in fear under the covers or we can wake up each morning full of resentment and carry that with us out into the world.  A wise and positive choice is to believe that each day is a new adventure and that you are the woman who is bold and brave enough to live it.  Which do you prefer – fear, resentment or adventure?  It’s your choice.

Stop Wasting Your Time

June 14th, 2017 comments No Comments »

One day she realized she was wasting her time defining her experiences as good or bad. It was all just life and she was brave, strong and creative enough to handle anything. - Queenisms™

One day she realized she was wasting her time defining her experiences as good or bad. It was all just life and she was brave, strong and creative enough to handle anything. – Queenisms™

Labeling life experiences as good or bad certainly seems like a good idea but does it really work.  How many times have gotten something that you thought was going to be wonderful only to have it turn out not so good?  The other side of that is all of the supposed bad things that have happened and ended up leading to a miraculously good outcome.  We finally realized it was time to let go of the labeling and stick to the facts – we are all brave, strong and creative enough to handle anything.

News & Events

  • Queenisms New Book and Calendar

    Our newest book and desk calendar for 2016 are here and creating them for you brought us a great deal of joy.

  • New Queenisms book and calendar!

    The all-new 2016 Queen of Your Own Life gift book and 2016 page-a-day calendar are now on sale at both Amazon and Barnes & Noble and we could not be prouder.

  • The Queen Calendar is a Bestseller!

    The Queen of Your Own Life 2016 Calendar is now on sale at Barnes & Noble and Amazon and soon to hit stores near you – wherever calendars are sold.