Queen of Your Own Life by Kathy Kinney and Cindy Ratzlaff

Queen of Your Own Life is an attitude, a way of life and a call to action for grown up women everywhere.

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Queen of Your Own Life

Welcome to the Rest of Your Life!

Queen of Your Own Life is an attitude, a way of life and a call to action for grown up women everywhere.

We invite you to join us in celebrating life. You have absolutely nothing to lose and only great friendship, thrilling adventure, true love and deep satisfaction to gain when you declare yourself Queen of Your Own Life.

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Time To Just Be Yourself

April 24th, 2017 comments No Comments »

She decided to just be herself and let the chips fall where they may. Wise Queens do things like that. - Queenisms™

She decided to just be herself and let the chips fall where they may. Wise Queens do things like that. – Queenisms™

The message is so loud and strong that we are not okay the way we are but that doesn’t make it true.  Letting go of pretenses and just being yourself is the perfect way to find out who are really your true and trusted friends.  It’s also a great way to open your life to let in people who love and enjoy you for who you really are.  Showing up every day and being yourself is like taking a breath of  pure, clean air.  It will make you fell deliciously free.

Being Patient With Yourself

April 21st, 2017 comments No Comments »

She decided she would practice being patient with family, friends, pets and especially herself. - Queenisms™

She decided she would practice being patient with family, friends, pets and especially herself. – Queenisms™

We are more impatient with ourselves than we are with anyone else in our lives.  We would never let anyone else speak to us the way we speak to ourselves.  Everyday life can be so frustrating with the need to rush around and accomplish such a huge amount of work, it’s no wonder we often find ourselves impatient with everyone around us.  That’s why it’s so important to, at least once a day, stop, take a breath and relax.  Perfection can be fatal to fun, friendship and love.  It’s better to get less done and instead treat all the people in our lives with love – especially ourselves.

Hello To Your Future

April 20th, 2017 comments No Comments »

She decided to take a vacation from "would've, should've, could've." It was so wonderful, she never went back. - Queenisms™

She decided to take a vacation from “would’ve, should’ve, could’ve.” It was so wonderful, she never went back. – Queenisms™

Living a life full of regrets for things we “would’ve, should’ve, could’ve” done is not fun or productive.  Letting go of past choices and moving on does require a bit of practice but the results are so worth it – you are worth it!  All the choices we have made and the experiences that we’ve had because of them, have made us the women we are right now.  And, what we have learned and the courage we have gained makes it possible for us to keep moving forward to make better and more positive choices today and in the future.

Everything Will Be All Right

April 19th, 2017 comments No Comments »

She needed a reminder so she wrote herself a note and kept it on her mirror. It said, "Everything will be all right no matter what." - Queenisms™

She needed a reminder so she wrote herself a note and kept it on her mirror. It said, “Everything will be all right no matter what.” – Queenisms™

Nobody really wants change or  to face the many catastrophe’s that life throws in our path but they’re going to happen anyway.  We have all faced a great number of these ordeals already and survived them.  Understanding that we will be all right no matter what is a give born of experience.  Hanging on to our sense of humor and with full belief in our resilience, there is nothing we can’t face and survive.  We are all so much braver and stronger than we even know.

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  • Queenisms New Book and Calendar

    Our newest book and desk calendar for 2016 are here and creating them for you brought us a great deal of joy.

  • New Queenisms book and calendar!

    The all-new 2016 Queen of Your Own Life gift book and 2016 page-a-day calendar are now on sale at both Amazon and Barnes & Noble and we could not be prouder.

  • The Queen Calendar is a Bestseller!

    The Queen of Your Own Life 2016 Calendar is now on sale at Barnes & Noble and Amazon and soon to hit stores near you – wherever calendars are sold.