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Time To Just Be Yourself

Monday, April 24th, 2017

She decided to just be herself and let the chips fall where they may. Wise Queens do things like that. - Queenisms™

She decided to just be herself and let the chips fall where they may. Wise Queens do things like that. – Queenisms™

The message is so loud and strong that we are not okay the way we are but that doesn’t make it true.  Letting go of pretenses and just being yourself is the perfect way to find out who are really your true and trusted friends.  It’s also a great way to open your life to let in people who love and enjoy you for who you really are.  Showing up every day and being yourself is like taking a breath of  pure, clean air.  It will make you fell deliciously free.

Being Patient With Yourself

Friday, April 21st, 2017

She decided she would practice being patient with family, friends, pets and especially herself. - Queenisms™

She decided she would practice being patient with family, friends, pets and especially herself. – Queenisms™

We are more impatient with ourselves than we are with anyone else in our lives.  We would never let anyone else speak to us the way we speak to ourselves.  Everyday life can be so frustrating with the need to rush around and accomplish such a huge amount of work, it’s no wonder we often find ourselves impatient with everyone around us.  That’s why it’s so important to, at least once a day, stop, take a breath and relax.  Perfection can be fatal to fun, friendship and love.  It’s better to get less done and instead treat all the people in our lives with love – especially ourselves.

Hello To Your Future

Thursday, April 20th, 2017

She decided to take a vacation from "would've, should've, could've." It was so wonderful, she never went back. - Queenisms™

She decided to take a vacation from “would’ve, should’ve, could’ve.” It was so wonderful, she never went back. – Queenisms™

Living a life full of regrets for things we “would’ve, should’ve, could’ve” done is not fun or productive.  Letting go of past choices and moving on does require a bit of practice but the results are so worth it – you are worth it!  All the choices we have made and the experiences that we’ve had because of them, have made us the women we are right now.  And, what we have learned and the courage we have gained makes it possible for us to keep moving forward to make better and more positive choices today and in the future.

Everything Will Be All Right

Wednesday, April 19th, 2017

She needed a reminder so she wrote herself a note and kept it on her mirror. It said, "Everything will be all right no matter what." - Queenisms™

She needed a reminder so she wrote herself a note and kept it on her mirror. It said, “Everything will be all right no matter what.” – Queenisms™

Nobody really wants change or  to face the many catastrophe’s that life throws in our path but they’re going to happen anyway.  We have all faced a great number of these ordeals already and survived them.  Understanding that we will be all right no matter what is a give born of experience.  Hanging on to our sense of humor and with full belief in our resilience, there is nothing we can’t face and survive.  We are all so much braver and stronger than we even know.

Being Who You Truly Are

Friday, April 14th, 2017

She chose to live her day as a powerful, intelligent woman who had the ability to navigate the day with grace and humor because that's who she truly was. - Queenisms™

She chose to live her day as a powerful, intelligent woman who had the ability to navigate the day with grace and humor because that’s who she truly was. – Queenisms™

If you gathered 100 women in a room and asked them what they thought of themselves, you would be surprised that 99.99% of them had low self-esteem and the other micro percent were just not admitting it.  We are so much more than the foolish things we have come to believe about ourselves.  We all have the ability to choose how to live each day and so why not choose to live it with your sense of humor in tact and continuously nurturing the understanding that you are perfect just the way your are.

Let Yourself Shine

Wednesday, April 12th, 2017

Her energy was powerful enough to light up, if not the whole world, at least a ten block radius. She decided to let it shine. - Queenisms™

Her energy was powerful enough to light up, if not the whole world, at least a ten block radius. She decided to let it shine. – Queenisms™

One day we realized we were tired of denying our power and our beauty.  We had listened to other peoples opinions of us and compared ourselves to images we saw in the media and found ourselves lacking.  We were still telling ourselves these same old faulty stories that we had been muttering to ourselves for years.  It was time to stop.  We are all so much more powerful, resilient and beautiful than we give ourselves credit for.  We all have the power to light up our corner of the world if not more!  Why wait?  Let yourself shine now.

 

Listen to Your Queen Voice

Monday, April 10th, 2017

She decided to turn up the volume on her Queen voice. The one that said she was brave, strong and worthy of all good things in life. - Queenisms™

She decided to turn up the volume on her Queen voice. The one that said she was brave, strong and worthy of all good things in life. – Queenisms™

We all have a chorus of voices whispering in our head.  It doesn’t mean there’s something wrong, it’s often just the echo of something negative someone else said to us.  We’re talking about the quiet but important voice that warns us not to step off the curb when a car is coming.  We call it our Queen voice and if you listen hard enough you will also hear it saying, “You are worth of all things good in life.”  It’s time to turn up the volume on this positive voice.

You Are Unique

Tuesday, April 4th, 2017

One day she realized there was no one in the entire world exactly like her - she was unique. She decided to start enjoying the beautiful, valuable, brilliant woman she was. - Queenisms™

One day she realized there was no one in the entire world exactly like her – she was unique. She decided to start enjoying the beautiful, valuable, brilliant woman she was. – Queenisms™

It seems the media would have us think that we need to all look alike, act alike and be alike.  What a boring world it would be if that were true.  It is our individuality that makes us beautiful and interesting no matter what our age.  We are each unique, there is no one else exactly like us – even identical twins are different and individuals.  We are all rare and unique and it’s time to celebrate how extraordinary we each are.

Anyone Would Be Lucky To Know You

Wednesday, March 22nd, 2017

The note said: You are gloriously yourself and anyone would be lucky to have you in their life. - Queenisms™

The note said: You are gloriously yourself and anyone would be lucky to have you in their life. – Queenisms™

If you were planning a perfect day what kind of person would you like to spend it with?  Would it be someone who has a good sense of humor, is kind, fun to be with, loyal, listens when you talk and loves you unconditionally? Do you realize that you just described yourself?  You are wonderful just the way  you are and there are millions, if not billions, of people who would love to have you in their lives.  If there is someone who doesn’t want to spend time with you – it’s their problem and not yours.  Your are worth it so find worthy friends.

Life Can Be Tough

Monday, March 13th, 2017

She decided that whenever her life got tough she would simply dare herself to sit back and enjoy the ride. - Queenisms™

She decided that whenever her life got tough she would simply dare herself to sit back and enjoy the ride. – Queenisms™

Sometimes life is easy and sometimes it’s tough.  If you’ve been watching the live cam of April the Giraffe waiting to give birth you’ ll know what I mean. There is nothing we can do to stop the tough times from coming so learning to just go with the flow seems like the logical thing to do. One of the great facts of life is that everything has a beginning, a middle and an end.  We just never know when the end is coming but rest assured that everything has an ending so why not make yourself comfortable and enjoy the now.