Queen of Your Own Life by Kathy Kinney and Cindy Ratzlaff

Queen of Your Own Life is an attitude, a way of life and a call to action for grown up women everywhere.

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Forgive Yourself

Monday, December 11th, 2017

It was time for her to forgive herself for those shortcomings that only she could see. - Queenisms™

It was time for her to forgive herself for those shortcomings that only she could see. – Queenisms™

Isn’t it time to stop looking at yourself through a warped magnifying glass?  No one sees your perceived flaws except yourself.  You are perfect just the way you are.

Letting Go Of Perfection

Tuesday, December 5th, 2017

She didn't have time to frost the cake perfectly but she and the hat were fantastic none-the-less. - Queenisms™

She didn’t have time to frost the cake perfectly but she and the hat were fantastic none-the-less. – Queenisms™

How many times have we all let perfection get in the way of enjoying life.  We’re taking a vow to have a perfection-free holiday season.  How about joining us?

Cut Yourself Some Slack

Thursday, November 30th, 2017

She paused to imagine what it would feel like if she cut herself some slack. It felt pretty good. - Queenisms™

She paused to imagine what it would feel like if she cut herself some slack. It felt pretty good. – Queenisms™

Think of the freedom when you stop beating yourself up for what you haven’t done and instead, celebrate yourself for what you have accomplished.  Give yourself some slack – what a great gift!

Practice Being Fearless

Tuesday, November 28th, 2017

She decided that just for today she would practice being fearless in her friendships, her love and her life. - Queenisms™

She decided that just for today she would practice being fearless in her friendships, her love and her life. – Queenisms™

Think about what it would be like to give yourself the gift of one minute, one hour or one whole day of not being afraid.  It’s your choice, so why not practice it starting right now.

Take A Grand Sabbatical

Sunday, November 26th, 2017

She gave herself permission to take a Grand Sabbatical from worry, fear and judging herself harshly. - Queenisms™

She gave herself permission to take a Grand Sabbatical from worry, fear and judging herself harshly. – Queenisms™

Why not make the choice to take a vacation from creating fear where none need exist or take some time off from beating yourself up for absolutely nothing.  Think of the freedom and all the extra time you’ll have.

Claim Victory For Yourself

Friday, November 24th, 2017

She claimed a victory by letting go of a habit that had controlled her life. And, just for today, that was hunky dory. - Queenisms™

She claimed a victory by letting go of a habit that had controlled her life. And, just for today, that was hunky dory. – Queenisms™

Breaking a habit or letting go of an addiction sometimes requires the courage to ask for help.   In the end it’s about slowly walking through your fears while understanding that you deserve all of the good things life can bring you.

Treat Yourself Kindly

Wednesday, November 22nd, 2017

She set a goal for herself. Today she would let no one treat her badly, speak cruelly to her or try to suppress her natural joy and beauty. Absolutely No One, not even herself. - Queenisms ™

She set a goal for herself. Today she would let no one treat her badly, speak cruelly to her or try to suppress her natural joy and beauty. Absolutely No One, not even herself. – Queenisms ™

We often treat ourselves with a great deal of unkindness.  We wouldn’t let a stranger treat us that way so why do it to ourselves?  Set a goal and banish self-cruelty!  It’s your choice to make.

Letting Go Of Perfection

Tuesday, November 21st, 2017

She spent a lot of time trying to make everything, including herself, perfect. She decided to stop wasting her precious time on superficial crap and to simply start being herself. It was time for her to invite real happiness and joy back into her life. - Queenisms ™

She spent a lot of time trying to make everything, including herself, perfect. She decided to stop wasting her precious time on superficial crap and to simply start being herself. It was time for her to invite real happiness and joy back into her life. – Queenisms ™

Doesn’t it seem that our valuable time is better spent in giving and receiving love than in wondering who’s going to notice the dust bunnies having a party under the bed?  Think about it.

The Queen of Your Own Life

Monday, November 20th, 2017

She had promised to take care of herself and to never let herself down. She was the Queen of her own life and she worked hard to keep that promise. - Queenisms ™

She had promised to take care of herself and to never let herself down. She was the Queen of her own life and she worked hard to keep that promise. – Queenisms ™

Making smart promises to yourself and working hard to keep them is a win-win situation.  Put yourself at the top of the list.

Choose How To Live Each Day

Wednesday, November 15th, 2017

She chose to live each day as a powerful, intelligent woman who navigated the day with humor and grace - because that's who she was. - Queenisms™

She chose to live each day as a powerful, intelligent woman who navigated the day with humor and grace – because that’s who she was. – Queenisms™

There are very few things in life we have any control over – our hair color and how we chose to live each day are two of them.  When we wake up every day we get to make the choice if we will try and view the daily experiences with humor and a smile or with negativity and a frown.  What would an intelligent, wise woman choose?