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Posts Tagged ‘Courage’

Feel Better At The End Of The Day

Tuesday, October 10th, 2017

She decided it took a lot less energy to be positive than it did to be negative. And you felt a lot better at the end of the day. - Queenisms™ It's day 2 of Women And Their Cats week!

She decided it took a lot less energy to be positive than it did to be negative. And you felt a lot better at the end of the day. – Queenisms™
It’s day 2 of Women And Their Cats week!

When we surround ourselves with people, places and things that are negative we absorb the negativity.  It takes a bit of practice but ultimately it does take a lot less energy to be positive than it does to be negative.  It’s your decision to make so what’s it going to be – negative or positive?

Back To Me Month

Tuesday, September 26th, 2017

Instead of "back to school" month, she decided that September would now be "back to me" month. She'd finally realized that taking care of herself didn't mean she was selfish, it meant she was sensible and smart. - Queenisms™

Instead of “back to school” month, she decided that September would now be “back to me” month. She’d finally realized that taking care of herself didn’t mean she was selfish, it meant she was sensible and smart. – Queenisms™

September always feels like a new beginning after all the summer fun.  As Queen of Your Own Life you can make the choice to have any month be “back to me” month so why not start now.  Taking care of yourself and finding a place to put yourself on the “To Do” list doesn’t make you selfish it makes you wise.  You can’t take care of other’s until you take care of yourself.

Be Yourself

Monday, September 25th, 2017

It really wasn't any of her business what anyone thought of her. So she decided to be herself. - Queenisms™

It really wasn’t any of her business what anyone thought of her. So she decided to be herself. – Queenisms™

We can get so bogged down in worrying about what other’s think of us but the truth is we have no control over what they think, say or do.  So we may as well let go of the fear and anxiety and just be ourselves.  The haters will leave and the other billion people will be attracted to us because we are authentic and real.  True story.

Claim Your Power and Beauty

Friday, September 22nd, 2017

She had been hiding her true beauty and power for years. She decided it was time to let it all hang out. - Queenisms™

She had been hiding her true beauty and power for years. She decided it was time to let it all hang out. – Queenisms™

We often don’t speak up or call attention to ourselves because we’re afraid that we’ll be judged or not liked.  Isn’t it time to speak up for ourselves and give ourselves the comfort of knowing that we have our own back? We are valuable, perfect and beautiful just the way we are.  Why not show the world who you really are?

Hang On To Hope

Monday, September 18th, 2017

The fact is every single thing has a beginning, middle and end. You just have to hang on tight to hope even when the end doesn't seem to be anywhere in sight. - Queenisms™

The fact is every single thing has a beginning, middle and end. You just have to hang on tight to hope even when the end doesn’t seem to be anywhere in sight. – Queenisms™

Everything has a beginning, middle and end.  If we were giants maybe we could see past the horizon to the end but we’re only human so we have to hang onto hope until the end inevitably arrives.  We all hang on to hope at some point in our lives, you are not alone.

Your Bold Adventure

Tuesday, September 12th, 2017

She decided to stop thinking of her life with fear and instead see it for what it was, a bold adventure being led by a very brave woman. - Queenisms™

She decided to stop thinking of her life with fear and instead see it for what it was, a bold adventure being led by a very brave woman. – Queenisms™

It’s our choice how we want to live our lives.  We can hide in bed with the quilt pulled over our heads or we can move forward through our fears.  We can search for like-minded friends to give us support and make the choice to see our lives for what they are – bold adventures being led by some very brave women.  Good choice.

You Can Handle It All

Wednesday, September 6th, 2017

Good news. She really was capable of handling anything that came her way. - Queenisms™

Good news. She really was capable of handling anything that came her way. – Queenisms™

We are all so much stronger and resilient than we know.  Think of how much life you’ve already lived and the impossible things you’ve already overcome.  What makes you think you’re going to stop being able to do that now?  You are the Queen of Your Own Life and part of that is being a true and courageous Warrior Queen.  You can handle it all.

Live Life Out Loud

Tuesday, September 5th, 2017

She made the decision to stop being the quiet one. It was time for her to live her life out loud. - Queenisms™

She made the decision to stop being the quiet one. It was time for her to live her life out loud. – Queenisms™

You can use your inside voice and still live life out loud.  And, you don’t have to dress in bold and vivid colors – unless you want to.  We’re just saying it’s time for us all to  claim our place in this world and speak up for what we believe in whether its an issue in your community or your belief in kittens and puppies for everyone.  Our thoughts and beliefs are valuable so let’s share them.

Living An Honest Life

Friday, July 14th, 2017

Life was much easier when she was honest with everyone, especially herself. - Queenisms™Living An Honest Life

Life was much easier when she was honest with everyone, especially herself. – Queenisms™

We all have a tendency to tell “stories” about and to ourselves.  We ignore feelings instead saying things to ourselves and others to cover the truth.  Wading through the little white lies we tell to not rock the boat and finally exposing the truth let’s in the sunshine and grants us the freedom of living a honest life.  Don’t we all deserve that?

Go Big Or Go Home

Friday, July 7th, 2017

She woke up thinking "Go big or go home." And she just wasn't in the mood to go home. - Queenisms™

She woke up thinking “Go big or go home.” And she just wasn’t in the mood to go home. – Queenisms™

We believe that it’s true that everything we want is right on the other side of fear.  How many times have you let your fear of failure or ridicule keep you from doing something you really wanted to do.  It’s possible to make positive changes by just taking one tiny step through our fears every day.  The days add up and using the affirmation “Go big or go home,” is a good way to help yourself move forward.  Isn’t it time to get out of your own way and start heading towards the life you want?