Queen of Your Own Life by Kathy Kinney and Cindy Ratzlaff

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Posts Tagged ‘positive affirmations’

Stop Negative Self Talk

Saturday, December 2nd, 2017

Someone had been telling her she wasn't enough. Luckily she was able to tell herself to knock it off. - Queenisms™

Someone had been telling her she wasn’t enough. Luckily she was able to tell herself to knock it off. – Queenisms™

The abusive way we speak to ourselves is a constant source of amazement to us.  Words matter.  Just for today try speaking to yourself in a nurturing and loving manner.  It really makes a difference.

Letting Go Of Perfection

Tuesday, November 21st, 2017

She spent a lot of time trying to make everything, including herself, perfect. She decided to stop wasting her precious time on superficial crap and to simply start being herself. It was time for her to invite real happiness and joy back into her life. - Queenisms ™

She spent a lot of time trying to make everything, including herself, perfect. She decided to stop wasting her precious time on superficial crap and to simply start being herself. It was time for her to invite real happiness and joy back into her life. – Queenisms ™

Doesn’t it seem that our valuable time is better spent in giving and receiving love than in wondering who’s going to notice the dust bunnies having a party under the bed?  Think about it.

Making Life Look Easy

Sunday, November 19th, 2017

She had the ability to make the hard things seem easy. And she knew the value of a good pair of stretchy pants. - Queenisms ™

She had the ability to make the hard things seem easy. And she knew the value of a good pair of stretchy pants. – Queenisms ™

You make living a happy, adventurous life look easy.  Is it because you always know when to wear your stretchy pants?  Thanksgiving is comeing1

There’s Always More

Friday, November 17th, 2017

She never lost hope. Her life experience had taught her to hang on because there is always something more. - Queenisms™

She never lost hope. Her life experience had taught her to hang on because there is always something more. – Queenisms™

We’ve all been through so much and always come out the other side.  Let’s lean on our experience to give us the hope we need when times get dark, keeping in mind there is always something more.

Choose How To Live Each Day

Wednesday, November 15th, 2017

She chose to live each day as a powerful, intelligent woman who navigated the day with humor and grace - because that's who she was. - Queenisms™

She chose to live each day as a powerful, intelligent woman who navigated the day with humor and grace – because that’s who she was. – Queenisms™

There are very few things in life we have any control over – our hair color and how we chose to live each day are two of them.  When we wake up every day we get to make the choice if we will try and view the daily experiences with humor and a smile or with negativity and a frown.  What would an intelligent, wise woman choose?

Childhood – Makes You Who You Are

Tuesday, November 7th, 2017

She hadn't had the best childhood but she knew there was always someone who'd had worse. But, it had made her who she was - strong, resilient, brave, capable and a pretty snappy dresser. - Queenisms™

She hadn’t had the best childhood but she knew there was always someone who’d had worse. But, it had made her who she was – strong, resilient, brave, capable and a pretty snappy dresser. – Queenisms™

We all have a list of “things” that happened to us in our childhood.  Isn’t it time to burn that list, scatter the ashes to the wind and be grateful for the strong and resilient woman we’ve become because of it?

Chose To Be A Winner

Sunday, October 29th, 2017

She was done being a whiner. She decided she was better suited to be a winner. Queenisms™ Day 7 of The Roaring Twenties week

She was done being a whiner. She decided she was better suited to be a winner. Queenisms™

Day 7 of The Roaring Twenties week

Whining or complaining is just another way to sit in the fear.  Isn’t it time to be a winner by slowly walking through your fear to live the life you’re meant to live?

Be A Woman Of Your Word

Saturday, October 28th, 2017

She had become a woman of her word. Her "yes" meant yes and her "no" meant no. It had taken years but now, that was the way she rolled. Queenisms™ Day 6 of The Roaring Twenties week

She had become a woman of her word. Her “yes” meant yes and her “no” meant no. It had taken years but now, that was the way she rolled. Queenisms™

Day 6 of The Roaring Twenties week

Learning to set strong but gentle boundaries takes a bit of practice and the willingness to feel uncomfortable as we first learn to take care of ourselves.  The payoff of having our word trusted and respected as well as living a resentment free life is more than worth our time.

Power to Change Worlds

Friday, October 27th, 2017

Everywhere she turned she got the message that she wasn't enough. She decided it was time to cut through the baloney. The truth was she had the power to change worlds, starting with her own. Queenisms™ Day 5 of The Roaring Twenties week

Everywhere she turned she got the message that she wasn’t enough. She decided it was time to cut through the baloney. The truth was she had the power to change worlds, starting with her own. Queenisms™

Day 5 of The Roaring Twenties week

It’s almost impossible to pass through the day without getting the message that we’re not young enough, pretty enough or smart enough but it’s just a bunch of advertising baloney.  Isn’t it time to understand that you are perfect just the way you are and harness that power for the good of everyone – including yourself?

Live An Extraordinary Life

Wednesday, October 25th, 2017

She was an ordinary woman living an extraordinary life. She liked that about herself. - Queenisms™ Day 3 of The Roaring Twenties week

She was an ordinary woman living an extraordinary life. She liked that about herself. – Queenisms™

Day 3 of The Roaring Twenties week

You have the ability to create an extraordinary life simply by showing up and giving everyone, including yourself, love and respect.  It’s a simple choice.