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Letting Go Of Judgement

Friday, October 14th, 2016

She wanted to live this day with joy, fun and no judgement of herself or others. Since it was her choice, and her choice alone, that's exactly what she decided to do. – Queenisms™

She wanted to live this day with joy, fun and no judgement of herself or others. Since it was her choice, and her choice alone, that’s exactly what she decided to do. – Queenisms

Somebody was asking us the other day about how to let go of self-judgement.  We told them that it was a choice that we made every day.  And they said yes but how did you do it, when did you come to that point.  The answer is when you can’t stand to live in the pain of self-judgement you make the choice to change.  We didn’t want to judge ourselves anymore and we certainly didn’t want anyone else to judge us so we made the choice to change.  It takes courage and practice but it was so much easier than we ever dreamed and we are worth it.  We know that you are worth it as well.

Merry Christmas 2013

Wednesday, December 25th, 2013


Merry Christmas 2013


When she woke up she took a moment to organize her priorities. She decided that today, as with all days, her number one priority would be to give and receive love.  – Queenisms™


To all of our Queens that celebrate Christmas, we wish you the happiest and merriest of days.

Enough No, More Yes | Queenisms

Tuesday, May 7th, 2013

by Cindy Ratzlaff

She was always being told “no.” Doors were closed to her. They said she wasn’t good enough, smart enough or pretty enough. Finally, fed up, she said “ENOUGH!” And, decided to tell herself “yes.” If she couldn’t get in the door, she’d thrive outside. ~ Queenisms™


The Power of NOW | Queenisms

Monday, May 6th, 2013

by Kathy Kinney

Everyday was a chance to make the choice for a new beginning. She just needed the courage to open her mouth and tell herself, “Now!” – Queenisms™


A Dream is a Blueprint | Queenisms

Sunday, May 5th, 2013

by Cindy Ratzlaff

She nurtured her dreams using every tool at her disposal until they blossomed into a beautiful reality. ~ Queenisms™


Look in the Mirror | Queenisms

Saturday, May 4th, 2013

Good morning! Today we’re holding up a mirror for you. We want you to see yourselves the way we see you – beautiful, brilliant, resilient women. Your voices matters. Your dreams matter. And every day brings a new chance to listen to your own hearts. So sayeth these Queens.

~ Queen Kathy and Queen Cindy

Care and Feeding of Friendship | Queenisms

Friday, May 3rd, 2013

Photo courtesy of A.B. Klein – left is her great-grandmother Daisy Calloway aged 19 with her friend, circa 1929

by Kathy Kinney

She’d had friends who had betrayed her, but in the long story of life there were so many more who had been supportive, agenda free and who truly had her back. She decided it was time to let them know how grateful she was that they were in her life. – Queenisms™


Escaping the Trap | Queenisms

Thursday, May 2nd, 2013

by Cindy Ratzlaff

The stuff of luxury felt like trappings. It did not enhance her spirit, nor uplift her sense of worth. It was only in small and daily acts of disrupting the status quo that she finally felt her true voice emerge. And it was powerful, purposeful and filled with joy. ~Queenisms™

If you are not happy with the status quo, we encourage you to disrupt it, make a change, try something new. Wear a swimsuit, dance in your living room, sing in public, dare to say no, paint a picture, laugh from your belly, create something without a recipe.  What would you do if you could not fail?

Start Walking | Queenisms

Wednesday, May 1st, 2013

by Kathy Kinney

Her choice was to stay the same or walk through her fear and become the woman she was meant to be. She decided to start walking. It’s never too late to live the life you dream of having. – Queenisms™


Bring on the Rain | Queenisms

Wednesday, May 1st, 2013

by Cindy Ratzlaff

She dared the storm to wash away her doubt and cloaked herself with the resolve to remember the beauty rain could bring. ~ Queenisms™