Queen of Your Own Life by Kathy Kinney and Cindy Ratzlaff

Queen of Your Own Life is an attitude, a way of life and a call to action for grown up women everywhere.

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Queen of Your Own Life

Give Yourself a Gold Star

February 16th, 2018

She decided to give herself a gold star today just for doing her best to live life with a touch of flair and a whole lot of courage. - Queenisms™

She decided to give herself a gold star today just for doing her best to live life with a touch of flair and a whole lot of courage. – Queenisms™

You’re doing a great job.  Why not give yourself a gold star every day?

A Life Filled With Wonder

February 15th, 2018

She didn't have time for nonsense. She was too busy leading a life filled with wonder. - Queenisms™

She didn’t have time for nonsense. She was too busy leading a life filled with wonder. – Queenisms™

It’s easy to get bogged down in the nonsense that comes our way but there is such joy and and simple wonder to be had.  Why not focus on what’s really important.

It Takes What It Takes

February 14th, 2018

One brilliant day she realized there were no lost or wasted moments in life. It simply took what it took to get you were you were going. - Queenisms™

One brilliant day she realized there were no lost or wasted moments in life. It simply took what it took to get you were you were going. – Queenisms™

Happy Valentine’s Day!  Enjoy your journey.

Determination Greater Than Any Obstacle

February 13th, 2018

Inside of her was a determination that was greater than any obstacle in her way. - Queenisms™

Inside of her was a determination that was greater than any obstacle in her way. – Queenisms™

You are so much stronger than you realize.

Choose Your Priorities

February 12th, 2018

After a particularly hard kick in the pants by life she reassessed her priorities. She chose love, laughter, happiness and friendship. - Queenisms™Choose Your Priorities

After a particularly hard kick in the pants by life she reassessed her priorities. She chose love, laughter, happiness and friendship. – Queenisms™

Take a look at your priority list.  What’s on the top of the list?

The Gumption To Show Up

February 11th, 2018

She had no idea how it would all turn out. But she had the gumption to show up and figure it out. She liked that about herself. - Queenisms™

She had no idea how it would all turn out. But she had the gumption to show up and figure it out. She liked that about herself. – Queenisms™

We have no control over what life will send our way but we can decide how we’re going to handle it.

Set Yourself Free

February 10th, 2018

She felt trapped by everyone's expectations of her. Then she realized she had the key to open the door and set herself free. So she did. - Queenisms™

She felt trapped by everyone’s expectations of her. Then she realized she had the key to open the door and set herself free. So she did. – Queenisms™

Don’t allow yourself to feel trapped.  There are always more options than you realize and you have a choice.

Stop the Habit of Beating Yourself Up

February 9th, 2018

It was a good day to get out of the old habit of beating herself up and get into the new habit of giving herself kindness and support. If she didn't, who would? - Queenisms™

It was a good day to get out of the old habit of beating herself up and get into the new habit of giving herself kindness and support. If she didn’t, who would? – Queenisms™

Being the first one in line to have your own back is just smart!

Get An Attitude of Gratitude

February 8th, 2018

She had an attitude of gratitude that was simply contagious. And everyone wanted to catch what she had. - Queenisms™

She had an attitude of gratitude that was simply contagious. And everyone wanted to catch what she had. – Queenisms™

Gratitude takes practice. What are you grateful for today?

Make Your Needs Known

February 7th, 2018

Very often people didn't do what she expected of them and it made her angry. She came to realize that, because most people weren't mind readers, she would have to speak up and make her needs known. She decided she had the courage to take care of herself. - Queenisms™

Very often people didn’t do what she expected of them and it made her angry. She came to realize that, because most people weren’t mind readers, she would have to speak up and make her needs known. She decided she had the courage to take care of herself. – Queenisms™

There are no mind readers so isn’t it time to step up and find your voice?