Queen of Your Own Life by Kathy Kinney and Cindy Ratzlaff

Queen of Your Own Life is an attitude, a way of life and a call to action for grown up women everywhere.

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Queen of Your Own Life

Forgive Yourself

December 11th, 2017

It was time for her to forgive herself for those shortcomings that only she could see. - Queenisms™

It was time for her to forgive herself for those shortcomings that only she could see. – Queenisms™

Isn’t it time to stop looking at yourself through a warped magnifying glass?  No one sees your perceived flaws except yourself.  You are perfect just the way you are.

Born To Sparkle

December 9th, 2017

She'd tried blending in and it wasn't working for her because the truth was, she was born to sparkle. - Queenisms™

She’d tried blending in and it wasn’t working for her because the truth was, she was born to sparkle. – Queenisms™

It’s time to stop hiding it, denying it and trying to dim it.  You were born to sparkle so let it rip!

Give Yourself Joy

December 8th, 2017

She put on her hat and declared, "Let's get this party started!" She had decided to bring more joy into everyone's life, and especially her own. - Queenisms™

She put on her hat and declared, “Let’s get this party started!” She had decided to bring more joy into everyone’s life, and especially her own. – Queenisms™

It is our choice how we handle each day.  Doesn’t it seem like a good idea to try and bring more joy into our life and the lives of those around us?  Being positive doesn’t mean you’re an idiot, it means you are very, very wise.

You Are A Rockstar

December 7th, 2017

Under the radar, without encouragement, despite the naysayers, she succeeded like the rock star she was meant to be. - Queenisms™

Under the radar, without encouragement, despite the naysayers, she succeeded like the rock star she was meant to be. – Queenisms™

You’re doing a fantastic job of living your life and we think you’re a Rockstar!  We hope you feel the same way about yourself.

Hope The Best Gift Of All

December 6th, 2017

This season she would give herself the best gift of all. Hope. - Queenisms™

This season she would give herself the best gift of all. Hope. – Queenisms™

Everything has a beginning a middle and an end.  Since we’re not always capable of seeing where we are in the process it’s important to hang onto hope. We all deserve the best that life has to offer.

Letting Go Of Perfection

December 5th, 2017

She didn't have time to frost the cake perfectly but she and the hat were fantastic none-the-less. - Queenisms™

She didn’t have time to frost the cake perfectly but she and the hat were fantastic none-the-less. – Queenisms™

How many times have we all let perfection get in the way of enjoying life.  We’re taking a vow to have a perfection-free holiday season.  How about joining us?

More Right Than Wrong

December 4th, 2017

It was time she realized that there were many more things right in her life than wrong. After all, she was the Queen of Her Own Life. - Queenisms™

It was time she realized that there were many more things right in her life than wrong. After all, she was the Queen of Her Own Life. – Queenisms™

It’s easy to get in the habit of only looking at the negatives so how about making a gratitude list to remind yourself of how many good things you do have?

 

Stop Negative Self Talk

December 2nd, 2017

Someone had been telling her she wasn't enough. Luckily she was able to tell herself to knock it off. - Queenisms™

Someone had been telling her she wasn’t enough. Luckily she was able to tell herself to knock it off. – Queenisms™

The abusive way we speak to ourselves is a constant source of amazement to us.  Words matter.  Just for today try speaking to yourself in a nurturing and loving manner.  It really makes a difference.

Cut Yourself Some Slack

November 30th, 2017

She paused to imagine what it would feel like if she cut herself some slack. It felt pretty good. - Queenisms™

She paused to imagine what it would feel like if she cut herself some slack. It felt pretty good. – Queenisms™

Think of the freedom when you stop beating yourself up for what you haven’t done and instead, celebrate yourself for what you have accomplished.  Give yourself some slack – what a great gift!

Practice Being Fearless

November 28th, 2017

She decided that just for today she would practice being fearless in her friendships, her love and her life. - Queenisms™

She decided that just for today she would practice being fearless in her friendships, her love and her life. – Queenisms™

Think about what it would be like to give yourself the gift of one minute, one hour or one whole day of not being afraid.  It’s your choice, so why not practice it starting right now.