Queen of Your Own Life by Kathy Kinney and Cindy Ratzlaff

Queen of Your Own Life is an attitude, a way of life and a call to action for grown up women everywhere.

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Queen of Your Own Life

Claim Your Power and Beauty

September 22nd, 2017

She had been hiding her true beauty and power for years. She decided it was time to let it all hang out. - Queenisms™

She had been hiding her true beauty and power for years. She decided it was time to let it all hang out. – Queenisms™

We often don’t speak up or call attention to ourselves because we’re afraid that we’ll be judged or not liked.  Isn’t it time to speak up for ourselves and give ourselves the comfort of knowing that we have our own back? We are valuable, perfect and beautiful just the way we are.  Why not show the world who you really are?

Speak With Kindness

September 21st, 2017

She made a deal with herself. She wouldn't allow anyone to say cruel and unkind things to her anymore and she would stop talking to herself that way as well. It was a win-win situation. - Queenisms™

She made a deal with herself. She wouldn’t allow anyone to say cruel and unkind things to her anymore and she would stop talking to herself that way as well. It was a win-win situation. – Queenisms™

You wouldn’t let any one get away with saying cruel and mean things to you so isn’t it time you stop treating yourself that way?  How you talk about and to yourself is important and signals to others how you really feel about yourself.  It only takes a little bit of effort to speak to yourself with kind and loving words.  Why not give it a try?

Queen Of Your Own Life

September 20th, 2017

Born to regular folks but raised to royalty by her own choice. She was the newly crowned Queen Of Her Own Life. - - Queenisms™

Born to regular folks but raised to royalty by her own choice. She was the newly crowned Queen Of Her Own Life. – Queenisms™

You get to make a choice every single day about not what will happen to you that day but how you are going to handle it.  When you chose to be the Queen of Your Own Life you are saying that you are worthy, valuable, strong and brave.  You are a warrior Queen who lives each day with love, kindness and courage.  Doesn’t that sound like a really good choice?

Long Lasting Friendships

September 19th, 2017

She was happy when she realized it is never too late to make good and long lasting friends. - Queenisms™

She was happy when she realized it is never too late to make good and long lasting friends. – Queenisms™

We’ve all had friends who’ve betrayed us or who didn’t love us unconditionally.  When we were little all it took to make a new friend was a cookie or a smile.  Now that we’re older it takes a bit more effort, and we have to be prepared to be turned down, but there are lot’s of people out there also looking for a good and long lasting friend.  Isn’t it time to take your courage in hand and go out and find them?

Hang On To Hope

September 18th, 2017

The fact is every single thing has a beginning, middle and end. You just have to hang on tight to hope even when the end doesn't seem to be anywhere in sight. - Queenisms™

The fact is every single thing has a beginning, middle and end. You just have to hang on tight to hope even when the end doesn’t seem to be anywhere in sight. – Queenisms™

Everything has a beginning, middle and end.  If we were giants maybe we could see past the horizon to the end but we’re only human so we have to hang onto hope until the end inevitably arrives.  We all hang on to hope at some point in our lives, you are not alone.

Sharing Laughter

September 16th, 2017

Oh sure, she had some regrets. But making people laugh was not one of them. Queenisms™

Oh sure, she had some regrets. But making people laugh was not one of them. Queenisms™

No regrets, just always keeping in mind that laughter is the best medicine and sharing it with all we come in contact with!

Making Good Choices

September 15th, 2017

She decided to declare it Imperfect Friday and then have a wonderful, guilt-free weekend. As Queen, she could make decisions like that. - Queenisms™

She decided to declare it Imperfect Friday and then have a wonderful, guilt-free weekend. As Queen, she could make decisions like that. – Queenisms™

Our lives have a way of winding us up till we’re full of fear and anxiety.  How about making the choice to take a vacation from these feelings and just enjoy yourself.  As the Queen of Your Own Life you can make decisions like that and then live them.

Give Yourself What You Give Others

September 14th, 2017

She decided to practice loving herself completely and unconditionally. It was time for her to give to herself what she so freely gave to her family and friends. - Queenisms™

She decided to practice loving herself completely and unconditionally. It was time for her to give to herself what she so freely gave to her family and friends. – Queenisms™

We give love and support to our family, friends, pets and even strangers but are we as quick to give it to ourselves?  It’s time for us to start treating ourselves with the love and kindness we give others because if we don’t do it, who will?  Try looking in the mirror, make eye contact and say, ” I love you and I have your back.”  You may feel a bit silly but it’s very effective.

Just Be Yourself

September 13th, 2017

It was a relief when she realized you don't have to earn the right to enjoy your life by being perfect. All you have to do is be yourself. - Queenisms™

It was a relief when she realized you don’t have to earn the right to enjoy your life by being perfect. All you have to do is be yourself. – Queenisms™

We create so many rules and regulations for ourselves.  What if we just said, “Go ahead and enjoy yourself right now!”  We’re not saying don’t clean  your house, or do the laundry – we’re just saying is it really wrong to let the dust bunnies fend for themselves a little bit longer and go for a walk?  We don’t have to strive for perfection because we’re perfect already, no matter what.

Your Bold Adventure

September 12th, 2017

She decided to stop thinking of her life with fear and instead see it for what it was, a bold adventure being led by a very brave woman. - Queenisms™

She decided to stop thinking of her life with fear and instead see it for what it was, a bold adventure being led by a very brave woman. – Queenisms™

It’s our choice how we want to live our lives.  We can hide in bed with the quilt pulled over our heads or we can move forward through our fears.  We can search for like-minded friends to give us support and make the choice to see our lives for what they are – bold adventures being led by some very brave women.  Good choice.