Queen of Your Own Life by Kathy Kinney and Cindy Ratzlaff

Queen of Your Own Life is an attitude, a way of life and a call to action for grown up women everywhere.

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Queen of Your Own Life

The Queen of Your Own Life

November 20th, 2017

She had promised to take care of herself and to never let herself down. She was the Queen of her own life and she worked hard to keep that promise. - Queenisms ™

She had promised to take care of herself and to never let herself down. She was the Queen of her own life and she worked hard to keep that promise. – Queenisms ™

Making smart promises to yourself and working hard to keep them is a win-win situation.  Put yourself at the top of the list.

Making Life Look Easy

November 19th, 2017

She had the ability to make the hard things seem easy. And she knew the value of a good pair of stretchy pants. - Queenisms ™

She had the ability to make the hard things seem easy. And she knew the value of a good pair of stretchy pants. – Queenisms ™

You make living a happy, adventurous life look easy.  Is it because you always know when to wear your stretchy pants?  Thanksgiving is comeing1

Savoring The Moment

November 18th, 2017

She was a multi-tasking superstar who needed a bit more work on the art of slowing down to savor the moment. So she vowed to keep trying until she got it just right. -Queenisms™

She was a multi-tasking superstar who needed a bit more work on the art of slowing down to savor the moment. So she vowed to keep trying until she got it just right. -Queenisms™

Let go of the perfectionism and enjoy the living.  You deserve it!

There’s Always More

November 17th, 2017

She never lost hope. Her life experience had taught her to hang on because there is always something more. - Queenisms™

She never lost hope. Her life experience had taught her to hang on because there is always something more. – Queenisms™

We’ve all been through so much and always come out the other side.  Let’s lean on our experience to give us the hope we need when times get dark, keeping in mind there is always something more.

Be The Heroine

November 16th, 2017

She hadn't always believed she was the heroine of her own story. That, she decided, changed today.- Queenisms™

She hadn’t always believed she was the heroine of her own story. That, she decided, changed today.- Queenisms™

Isn’t it time for you to be the leading character in your own life?  Making yourself a priority doesn’t make you selfish, it just makes you smart.

Choose How To Live Each Day

November 15th, 2017

She chose to live each day as a powerful, intelligent woman who navigated the day with humor and grace - because that's who she was. - Queenisms™

She chose to live each day as a powerful, intelligent woman who navigated the day with humor and grace – because that’s who she was. – Queenisms™

There are very few things in life we have any control over – our hair color and how we chose to live each day are two of them.  When we wake up every day we get to make the choice if we will try and view the daily experiences with humor and a smile or with negativity and a frown.  What would an intelligent, wise woman choose?

Time To Let Go Of Fear

November 14th, 2017

She was the only thing that stood between her and the woman she wanted to be. She decided it was time to let go of her fear and just do it. - Queenisms™

She was the only thing that stood between her and the woman she wanted to be. She decided it was time to let go of her fear and just do it. – Queenisms™

Everything we want is right on the other side of fear.  We’re the ones that create that fear and we’re the only ones who can let it go.  Isn’t it time to walk through your fears and become the woman you were meant to be?

Put Yourself On The List

November 13th, 2017

She took very good care of everyone but herself. She decided it was time to add herself to the top of the list. It didn't make her selfish, just very wise. - Queenisms™

She took very good care of everyone but herself. She decided it was time to add herself to the top of the list. It didn’t make her selfish, just very wise. – Queenisms™

It’s important that you take care of yourself – for you and every one in your life.  You are valuable and your love and friendship is a source of comfort and happiness.  Please be wise and put yourself on the top of the care list.

Bring Joy To Yourself Today

November 12th, 2017

She woke up every morning with an undoable list of "should's" running through her head until she learned to pause upon wakening to ask herself one simple question. What can I do for you today to bring you joy? - Queenisms™

She woke up every morning with an undoable list of “should’s” running through her head until she learned to pause upon wakening to ask herself one simple question. What can I do for you today to bring you joy? – Queenisms™

We know it seems a bit corny but just try looking in the mirror, make eye contact with yourself and say, “What can I do today to make you happy?”  You have to figure out what will make you happy because no one else can.

Doing the Best You Can

November 11th, 2017

Yowza. Some days nothing went the way she thought it should. So she put on her game face and did the best she could. - Queenisms™

Yowza. Some days nothing went the way she thought it should. So she put on her game face and did the best she could. – Queenisms™

Isn’t it time to give yourself a bit of slack?  You’re doing the best you can, if you could do better you would.  Honest.